Hi Reader!

Something that might come up for you as you plan your trip to Mexico is what to wear. Often, travelers want to know how locals dress in their destination so they can pack strategically and blend in.

And while there's something to be said for trying NOT to stand out blatantly as a tourist, I want to free you from the task of trying to blend in.

I don't think you can.

I was having a conversation with a Mexican friend once, and I remember saying something about how wearing "X" (I can't remember specifically what it was) would help me blend in more. He laughed.

And when I asked why, he said, "You won't blend in. It's always going to be obvious that you're an extranjera. People can tell just by the way you carry yourself."

The more I thought about it, the more I realized this is probably true. And while I'll cop to being a totally awkward human who potentially stands out more than most, I think this is probably the reality for most of us in Mexico.

It doesn't matter how closely we follow the local fashion, how well we speak Spanish, or how discretely we use our Google Maps... most of us are still going to stick out like a sore thumb.

I think there's a certain confidence that comes from being raised within a culture that most of us won't ever attain. No matter how much time we spend in Mexico.

When I see people asking questions like, "Will I stick out if I wear shorts?" my (internal) response is, "You sure will! But not because of the shorts!" This question is small potatoes when it comes to blending in.

When you're packing for Mexico, take what's comfortable.

Research the climate, consider your activities, and select your wardrobe accordingly. Wearing shorts isn't disrespectful, so if you want to wear them, go for it!

I think it's far more important to be comfortable than it is to try and blend in. And I think wearing clothing that you're comfortable in will help you conduct yourself more confidently and, in turn, help you blend in a little more!

And for the record, people DO wear shorts in Mexico. They probably don't wear them as much as those of us from the North are accustomed to because:

• Most people probably can't wear shorts to work
• They're more adapted to the climate and can tolerate wearing pants more often

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These are just some thoughts I had and wanted to share. I hope this helps you!

I know there are countless considerations when it comes to planning a trip, and if you're feeling overwhelmed by it all, consider booking a Mexico Pep Talk with me! Together, we'll go through all your questions and work to eliminate any confusion and overwhelm. Click here to book a spot!

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In the community...

My Female Travelers in Mexico Facebook community is a fantastic place to gather ideas for upcoming trips and to get up-to-the-minute information on what's happening in Mexico right now. We're over 18,000 members strong (🙈), each with a wealth of knowledge and experience. Whether you're looking for travel buddies or just want to ask questions, we'd love to have you join us.

Here's a look at some of the things we've been chatting about lately:

• The best things to see and do in Playa del Carmen
• Our solo travel experiences in Mexico
• Where to find bilingual tour guides at archaeological sites

We also have an ongoing meetup thread so you can connect with other travelers wherever you happen to be in the country!

If you're looking for a place to ask travel Qs like these ones, come hang!

Coming up...

I'll be back soon with more Mexico travel tips and inspiration.

If there's anything you've been wondering about, don't hesitate to hit reply and ask away. Whether you need advice on which destination to visit, travel logistics, or more, I'm here for you!

I read every email, and I'm always happy to help.

Hasta pronto!

Janine

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